But all the Muslim girls I have contacted are only focused on degrees. Passionate and loyal to a fault. It is like they are placing an order at a factory. We understand your point of making parent happy by simply lying. It is difficult to find a partner especially when you do not have a community or many family friends who are Muslim. These women need to detach themselves from the dunya, and become closer to Allah.
I was was searching over the last 4 years. These Muslims must use alternate methods in order to find a partner in a way that closely simulates the traditional process. Hope it gives some hope to some people…reema Dear Reema Our hats are off for both of you. Better for me or better for them? Marry of the women that you please: two, three, or four. The Prophet S was angered. In case he does the first wife can get divorce. Otherwise they will work, be asked to take off their hijabs, and support a lifestyle that operates on riba.
Also women are converting to Islam in much greater number than men so this is also a factor. This works the other way too with guys keeping female company. There are certain customs that all Muslims are expected to follow, but since Islam is interpreted in many ways across many cultures, it is difficult to make sweeping generalizations. Good luck to the ladies that want to consider it in the west! This is simply the nature of the world. I love to take pride in how I look, but it has been said by my friends that I have a great personality. His family took time n finally 3 years after marriage they accepted me and held a reception only thing I was told was to lie that I converted n had a nikaha a day b4 reception.
Easy for me to say, I know. Most marriages have the recommendation and approval of the father, who selects the spouse to benefit his daughter. They form the idea of the right guy from these sources which is unrealistic. All at the age of 21. Generally, wedding ceremonies in the traditionally involves scheduling the wedding date, preparation for the bride and groom, and carousing with dancing and singing which takes place one week or less prior to the wedding night.
I'm trying to find that special someone whom Allah has sent as my life partner. I must say we have to look in our religion for the solution. Other sisters tell him that we can marry only Western men e. Marriage Or Degree — Which Comes First? I think I have told what I had to say. Many of us like to focus on one exclusive reason, but I believe each person has a combination of interests in mind, given their own ambitions, experiences, and perhaps social pressure.
Whether its jain and Muslim or any inter religion marriage time and patience is the key, it took me 2 years to convince my family for marriage and another 3 years for my in laws to accept us. I am not refuting the fact that this has happened but a woman may have been pushed to that edge. You say that the government does not do a good job of protecting women in that marriage, nor do their husbands necessarily give them their due rights. I want to feel protected. I will be getting married next year.
Imran Muslim man living in Kuwait wants to get married to Muslim girl inshallah and complete the deen. A major part of creating a beloved community is the creation of a family but a Muslim marriage crisis is at our doorstep. Also, if you have a brother who attends that masjid, and he is someone you can trust and who is sympathetic to you, and will not accuse you of anything improper, then ask him to check for you about that young man. Such is the case where it applies to the allowable age of consent for marriage. I know the dynamics are difficult to digest and its taken us gud 8 years of being married lots of patience and trust to get where we are today. I also value other's feelings a lot.
Best chance not the only chance of having at the very least one child or maybe two is before 40. I am not sure if you are trolling or being serious but I will respond anyway. Parents are often wiser then their children give them credit for, though occasionally they are not. It is also though they are doing me a favour getting married or as if I have to suffer because she has to relocate. I find this is increasing amongst the younger generation.